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What is Loving Yourself 4 Real?

How we see ourselves is reflected in how we show up in life, what we believe we are worthy of, and how life responds to us. If we want to show up more in our greatness, which I call the glory of God, then we must ensure our self-concept, or the idea of us, incorporates a supporting belief system.

Unfortunately, many women live from an altered version of themselves versus God’s design. These altered versions were produced from others’ opinions, undesired situations, and trauma. Feelings of rejection and abandonment are by-products of these unfortunate circumstances. Women often create belief systems of unworthiness or not being good enough, while always having a sliver of hope that things could change. I guide women through my signature process from FEELING like they “aren’t enough” to KNOWING they “are more than enough”.

LY4R is a three-tier change strategy that marries biblical truths, clinical strategies, and therapeutic perspectives to cultivate a deepening of self-love. There is a truth presented in Mathew 22:37-39 and that is we love others to the same depth that we love ourselves. Your deepening in loving yourself is not only a gift to you, but it is a gift to others, as they are the beneficiaries of the richness that exists in your uniqueness. It is my deepest desire for you to love, live, produce, and create from the truest version of yourself.

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Darlena Austin

is the owner of SynHerGy (SHG) Venture Group, LLC, the parent company for SynHerGy Behavioral Strategies and Darlena Austin.

As the leading psychotherapist and clinical social worker for SynHerGy Behavioral Strategies, Darlena is affectionately known as the “Emotional Make-up Artist”. Darlena partners with women and guides them on a journey to their UnAltered Truth™ using her signature change strategy, “Loving YourSelf 4Real™”.

Darlena is convinced that every individual is born to produce greatness despite any and all of life adversities. For over twenty-five years, Darlena has had the distinct privilege of partnering with families and individuals as they navigated through crises and challenges. Providing a blueprint which supports women in achieving an intentional Self-redesign is the core of Darlena’s passion and purpose. She often says, ‘You may not be able to change your “Before,” but you can absolutely choose and redesign your “After”’.

Darlena enjoys multiple life roles, including wife to her husband James and mother to their children, Caleb and Camille. When the “Austin, party of four” is not enjoying family travel, Darlena writes scripts, laughs with her “Sistahs”, and searches for the best spa.

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Working with Darlena was wonderful. I loved that regardless of my state of mind, she was always calm and understanding. Before teaming up with Darlena I was unclear about what direction to take, how I should go about moving forward and how to create an action plan. The results I got from working with Darlena was first, clarity. She is a good listener and allowed me to work through my thoughts. She also provided great insight and new perspectives on my situation. She helped me sort through my foggy thoughts to uncover my true desires; then she helped me plot out a path forward. I loved how comfortable she made an extremely uncomfortable process. Change isn’t easy, but she seemed to be with me every step of the way.

Anyone interested in working with Darlena only needs to consider one thing – do they want change? If the answer is yes than they need to run to her website and sign up today. They will not only find her an invaluable resource, but they will find that she becomes their greatest confidante. She makes you feel safe to be transparent and honest. But more than that, she has the knowledge and skills to help you change your life into one you love, by teaching you to first love yourself. It’s no secret she’s in high demand, so I would recommend enrolling into any of her programs asap. Ask yourself why you’re on the fence when you KNOW this is the step you need to take to experience a new freedom, new self-love, and a better life?

My greatest takeaway is that I’m worth the work. I would tell anyone who may be in the fence about investing in themselves to work with Darlena that she is the best at what she does, and their life will never look the same.

Adrienne Crews

Maryland

Darlena provides clarity and quality in every detail. She is a true joy to work with. Focusing on who I am and not on what others perceive me to be has always been a challenge. Darlena aided me in adjusting my view to see the only narrative that mattered. The results have been phenomenal. I am no longer afraid of the whispers since I am the only stakeholder in my life who’s opinion matters. I matter and more importantly, I matter to myself. What I liked most about working with Darlena is that my individuality was not compromised. It was not a cookie cutter experience.

I would definitely refer Darlena to others and encourage each person to intentionally participate in the program. Go into wanting results and do the work. Fear has a way of crippling all of us. However, nothing will change until a step is made in the right direction. Darlena is that right direction that will lead to something greater. I would recommend that you dig deeper and experience the great reveal of “You” it is essential that you do just that.

Lynette Appling

MSHRM, PHR. Maryland

I really enjoyed working with Darlena. I was having problems on my job and was not getting along with my co-workers. I was angry all the time and was starting to get written up by my supervisor. After going through a soul transformation with Darlena, I learned the source of my anger which was grief. My mom had passed away and never dealt with the grief and loss in my life. I was given a homework assignment and tools on how to deal with my grief. I am better at handling my anger and getting along better with my co-workers.

I Working with Darlena helped me look inwardly to get a positive outward response. I learned that I had to redesign who I was as a person and daughter. That I was no longer a daughter and needed to find my truest version of Nandi. She helped find my true identity and find my new purpose in life so I can now live out my truest version. If I could say anything to someone else thinking of working with Darlena: Don’t cheat yourself of a new design and transformation because you deserve IT! She is an awesome architect; support system, and empowers you through her change strategy. She really cares about your process and journey. She helped me see my greatness and be successful on my job and in my life. What I really liked was the meditation exercise. Using my imagination, she took me on a journey to see my transformation. It motivated me to move forward and implement changes me to change.

If you are on the fence about starting with Darlena, let me say that being on a fence too long will cause you to be uncomfortable and stuck. Aren’t you tired of being stuck? I was. Take the risk to be transformed and WIN! Working with Darlena brings clarity, answers, and transformation.

Nandi Wilson

Philadelphia, PA

I thoroughly enjoyed working with Darlena. I enjoyed the ‘real talk’ and collaboration as well as her wise input. Before teaming with Darlena for my own betterment, I had witnessed her teamwork firsthand, up close and personal with my loved ones. She was able to use her gifts and wisdom to get teams to work like well-oiled machines. She had the wisdom and wit to know what pieces would work well together, as well as the talent to fuse them perfectly in the right place to produce products of excellence. When I heard of her idea for this program, I knew I needed something like it in my life. When she launched it, I was excited and knew immediately, I wanted to invest in me for a change. I had tried many self-help books, groups, do-it-yourself plans and always ended up going in the same circles. Her program set me on a path that constantly progresses. The simplicity of putting the right tools in place so that you can use them as a resource or part of a plan of moving forward is necessary for me doing this thing called life. Being a woman first, wife, mother, then taking responsibilities for other roles can cause you to lose the woman you were in the first place. Even though I am a woman first, the other titles and responsibilities came at a pace that cause me to stop learning me. As a result of this program, I have effective tools to remind me to never stop learning me. I (the woman) was drowning in what other people wanted me to be forgetting all about who ‘me’ is. I realized I cannot be ‘all there’ for no one, if I cannot be ‘all there’ for me. I now understand that I do evolve as a woman, even while life goes on and time never waits. These tools help me to stay engaged with the remarkable woman that I am, to not only love her, but also take care of her, acknowledge her feelings, reward her milestones and accomplishments, and stay aware of her changes. Teaming with Darlena, she taught me these tools developed by her and how to use them. I am now able to access my needs, effectively use the tools needed at the right times as I need them and maintain the balance to pursue progression forward always. I was mostly appreciative for the ‘guided imagery’ exercises. In these exercises, Darlena guides using imagery with her words. The eyes are closed during imagery and at the end of the events we share what we saw individually. I realized the power of my mind through this tool. If I can see myself changed, doing, achieving, conquering and so on then, I can be or become what I see or saw and even more. I tend to draw to authentic personalities. Darlena has been the same ever since I met her. I have watched her over years in different ways, team with people quietly for a time producing explosively positive results over and over again. This time it was personal and I still thank God often and appreciate Darlena for her obedience to Him even in this. I will always be grateful that our paths crossed.

If you are willing to be honest with yourself, you can recover and live the truest version of yourself with guided help. Through this program you will develop the strength to do this on your own with practice, then one day help edify someone else through what you have conquered. If you are considering working with Darlena, I would say to you if you can be honest with yourself without excuses, trust the guidance offered and are willing to invest the time and resources to be guided until you are effectively strengthened to love yourself for real, no matter what, then, this program is for you. If you are wondering “why”, that is a confirmed indication that you should. Do not miss out on your ‘Becoming’ by procrastinating or ignoring your heart.